Tuesday, January 6, 2015

The Sum of my Wisdom

This year I turned 50, a milestone that ideally comes with some hard-earned wisdom to share.  

Instead, I've spent the past six months wondering how this could have happened to someone as young as I am. I swear, I JUST turned 40 a week ago!  

It's been six months since my birthday, and I never did formulate any summary of the lessons I've learned over half a century.  Perhaps time got away from me because I now spend an alarming part of my day running to keep my arteries supple and then doing yoga to stretch and strengthen so that my joints won't seize up.  

And napping--because, what with all that running and yoga, you know....

...what was I talking about?  Oh, wisdom.  


Celebrating the big 5-0

This past week, I moved my oldest child to her new apartment (TWO HOURS AWAY).  Let me tell you, launching your young will motivate you to come up with some wise words like 50 never could.  The weeks prior to her move, I was overwhelmed with the sense that time was running out...

It didn't help that every blog post that crossed my path contained something in the title having to do with "what kids need to know BEFORE they leave home."  (Ulp.)

Did she learn everything I wanted her to learn?  In the short time remaining, I struggled with coming up with a "Top 10" list of truths I wanted to be SURE she knew before she left my home. 

(Struggled is a bit of an understatement.)  

In the end, I cranked out a last-minute compilation resulting from my scattered pondering over the preceding weeks--just before we headed out the door.  It would have to do, because time was officially UP.  The following list was written specifically to MY girl, but I'm thinking it pretty much hits the highlights of my wisdom from 50 years of living.  (It's a good start anyway!)



Celebrating (...well, mostly) my first to leave the nest.

  1. Jesus first—even when you are not feeling it. Home is where He is.
  2. You are a work in progress; you are enough, and you are worth fighting for.  So is everyone else.  Don't settle for less, and don't give less.
  3. You are loved—even when you are not feeling it. LIVE LOVED.
  4. The worst person you can lie to is yourself.  
  5. Failure is nearly always part of the road to success. Give yourself permission to fail.
  6. Surround yourself with positive, whole-hearted people, and endeavor to be one.
  7. BE WITH WHOM YOU ARE WITH. (Also known as "put the dang phone down!")  I know she rolled her eyes as she read this one...
  8. Don’t worry about your parents’ approval.  You had it the moment you took your first breath.
  9. Give grace to everyone--even meanies--remembering that grace is by definition unmerited, and we're all dying for it.
  10. You’re stronger than you know, but it’s okay to be weak sometimes—find the friends you can lean on and support.
So, there you have it.  Anyone have anything else to add?



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